Understanding Your Pet's Body Language: What They’re Trying to Tell You

Dog's Body Language:

Waging tail:

When your dog’s tail is wagging enthusiastically, it’s easy to assume they’re just excited. But did you know that not all tail wags are a sign of happiness? A fast, stiff wag may indicate anxiety or agitation, while a slow, wide wag can signal relaxation and friendliness. Pay attention to the rest of their body: if their body is stiff and their tail is high, they might be feeling territorial or tense.

Bowing:

When your dog lowers their front end and keeps their rear raised in the ‘play bow’ position, they’re inviting play. This is a universal sign of a friendly and playful dog. If another dog or pet mirrors this behaviour, it’s a great sign that they're ready for a fun interaction.

Ears:

The position of a dog’s ears can tell you a lot about their emotional state. For instance, when a dog’s ears are held back against their head, it can indicate fear or submission. If their ears are perked and forward, they’re likely alert and focused on something of interest, like a new person or a squirrel in the yard.

Stiff Body Posture:

A dog that suddenly becomes rigid or stiff may be feeling threatened or anxious. For instance, if a dog freezes or stands still with their body tense and ears back, it’s often a warning sign that they are uncomfortable and may be preparing to react defensively, such as growling or snapping.

Licking Lips or Nose:

If your dog licks their lips or nose rapidly, it can indicate stress or discomfort. It’s often a calming signal used by dogs to reduce tension. For example, if you’re at the vet and your dog starts licking their lips frequently, it’s a sign they are feeling anxious about the situation

Growling or Whining:

A dog that growls or whines is usually trying to communicate something. A low growl can indicate discomfort or territorial behaviour, while a high-pitched whine may be a sign of excitement, attention-seeking, or even anxiety. The tone of the growl and the context will give you clues about how your dog is feeling.

Cat's Body Language:

Purring:

Most people associate purring with a happy and content cat. While this is true cats will also purr when they are stressed, anxious or even in pain. Do you ever notice your cat purring while they are hiding or in a tense posture? They are purring to self-soothe, like their own personal breathing method to help keep them calm. 

Flicking Their Tail:

When your cat’s tail flicks rapidly, it’s usually a sign of irritation or frustration. For example, if they’re staring at something and their tail is twitching, they may be irritated or overstimulated. But, if the flicking is slower and accompanied by a relaxed posture, it could simply mean curiosity or mild annoyance. Your cat will also express when they are happy with their tail. A tall tail is a good indicator your cat is happy. 

Slow Blink : 

Do you ever wish your cat could tell you they love you back? Well maybe they are. One of the most loving signs a cat can give you is a slow blink, often referred to as ‘kitty kisses.’ When your cat looks at you and slowly blinks, it’s a clear sign of trust and affection. You can return the gesture by blinking slowly back at them to show them you feel the same way. 

Arched Back : 

An arched back in a cat can mean a few things depending on the context. If your cat arches their back and puffs up their fur, they are likely feeling threatened or frightened. However, if they arch their back during petting, it can also be a sign of enjoyment as they stretch and enjoy the sensation.

Belly Exposure :

When a cat rolls onto their back and exposes their belly, it’s often misunderstood as an invitation for a belly rub. However, cats only show their bellies when they feel safe and trust you. It’s a vulnerable position, so rather than always trying to rub their belly, observe their mood—some cats expose their belly as a sign of relaxation, while others may prefer not to be touched there.

Flattened against head:

When a cat flattens their ears against their head, it’s typically a sign that they’re agitated or fearful. This often happens when they feel cornered or threatened. If you see your cat with flattened ears, it’s best to give them some space and avoid further stress.